Healthy Intimacy addresses a range of sexual and relational issues due to past trauma, generational trauma, and conditioned beliefs concerning sex and love. Everyone has the right to heal regardless of gender, sexual orientation, religious beliefs, country of origin, or the family you found yourself in.
So many of us have had our lenses distorted by sexual abuse, harassment, the brainwashing of our culture, and if you're an empath or sensitive person, defilement can happen just through another's imaginations towards you.
There's a spectrum that exists with beyond imaginable things done to babies on one end, and seeing a risque ad planting a message in your head on the other. Most of us have had some things happen that land us in the middle somewhere, but all of it has the ability to make a mark on how you relate sex and love – if you do at all. A lot of us are cognizant of what happened, some of us don't have a memory but know we're not quite ok in that area. Consider this the non-therapy, non-digging-around-in memories opportunity to heal.
If you know that there is a chasm there, or you sense something happened to you somewhere that has caused a not-quite-healthy reaction in your relationships, here is the blend for you. This is a 1 oz bottle that should last you at least a month.
Healthy Intimacy may help you:
- ditch guilt, fear and shame
- clear up any sexual hangups
- get sex and love correctly linked up in your psyche
- help you have better, longer lasting relationships
- heal from sexual abuse, rape, molestation or harrassment
The Flowers:
Butterfly Weed helps where there is fear of commitment, frigidity, impotence or sexual obsessions. It aids a multitude of relational issues that boil down to control, boundary issues, losing interest when things get difficult, mundane or too emotionally intimate. Butterfly Weed helps us to come into a deeper level of relationship.
Basil helps to restore the sacred aspect of sexuality. It can be used wherever there has been objectification, degradation or abuse, whichever side of it you were on. Basil helps to shift the perspective from a purely physical act to the deepest expression of intimacy. A must have for porn addictions or if there’s any shame or negative feelings toward sex.
Hyssop addresses guilt and shame-based issues that all too often accompany sexual abuse victims, as well as those who were taught that sex is dirty or bad. Hyssop works within the structures of thinking we’ve created to reverse the internal judgment and self-condemnation we fall into.
Iceberg Rose helps to heal the effects of sexual abuse and restore a sense of purity and innocence. This essence encompasses all ages and genders but seems especially useful for children, who can be sensitive even to an illicit intention. Adults who experience frigidity or lack of emotional involvement connected to sex can benefit from Iceberg Rose, whether they recall an abusive situation in the past or not.
Easter Lily addresses the spiritual and physical aspects of the reproductive organs, especially in women. It helps when there has been abuse or misuse of sexuality, conversely also the condemnation of sexuality, even on a generational level. Easter lily helps us to release it from the cellular memory, and bring a balance back.
Evening Primrose helps heal emotional pain absorbed from the mother in early childhood. It is especially recommended for those who were adopted or unplanned causing stress in utero. It opens the ability to form deep lasting relationships by dealing with issues of rejection, fear of commitment and parenthood, and difficulties dealing with sexual and emotional feelings. It promotes healing of early childhood trauma and helps users develop greater emotional intimacy with others.
Rosemary is an aid where traumatizing situations have caused a disconnect from the physical realm. For those who don’t feel entirely present or in tune with their bodies, Rosemary can bring about a greater healing and sense of safety for soul and spirit to inhabit it’s earthly temple. Lack of physical response because you "check out" during intimate times can be indicators of old trauma that has convinced you that it’s not safe to be in the here and now. Rosemary has a social aspect as well, helping you to reintegrate into your place as a member of a society, network or community.
This is a 1 oz blend that should last you at least a month.
We recommend taking no more than one blend at a time. Here's why and some possible work arounds.
All of our essences use brandy as a preservative. For more information regarding the brandy as well as alternatives, click here.
Extra Resources
RAINN
1-800-656-HOPE (24 hour crisis line)
www.rainn.org
Child Help
1-800-4ACHILD (English and Multi-Lingual 24 Crisis Line for US & Canada)
www.childhelp.org
MaleSurvivor
http://www.malesurvivor.org/